Moving on…

There is an understandable curiosity about one’s past. In spite of the obvious – namely, that we were there – the recollection is clouded by forgetfulness, time and occasionally a particle of deceit. Indeed it is not uncommon to read about – or hear someone else relate – a past incident and be surprised by the details, as though the account were not only forgotten but also not even now imaginable.  Sometimes there is a complete wonder at having experienced the account at all. On occasion we’re lucky enough to discover we behaved as formidably as we reportedly did; or, that we undertook the event at all.

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The country lawyer

Today, at the height of my retirement and in as respectable an appearance as that to which I am now capable to attach, I presented myself to a country lawyer in our small town to sign an affidavit regarding a will I had drawn over a decade ago. It is a longstanding distinction to be a country lawyer – a distinction which, sometimes jokingly, others times mockingly, brooks either complimentary status or pejorative contempt. Predominantly however it may be displaced as a term of endearment. For my part it is an epithet to which I bond with considerable zeal and pride and no false modesty. I have heard it said of one country lawyer no longer whinnying among us that, “He practiced law with the contempt it deserves!”  This from a former Justice of the provincial court in our county seat. The labelling competition is normally among the lawyers themselves.

Historically, such an attorney (a country lawyer) may have been more likely to have joined the bar by reading law rather than attending school, and in modern times may have (or may be assumed to have) graduated from a lower tier legal program. The professions of law and medicine had this in common in the 19th and early 20th centuries, as country doctors of that day sometimes trained by “reading medicine” with established doctors, effectively in an apprenticeship, with minimal or no medical school training and hospital residency.

The refinement of the colloquial was borne out today by the fact that the country lawyer with whom I met was also a city lawyer in a law firm of other lawyers. The term, big city lawyer, may carry slighting connotations. Nonetheless my encounter today with the country lawyer was, as I discovered, both enlivened and enhanced by his rural family and upbringing on a 400-acre farm not far from the adjoining county town where he and his immediate family reside.

Monopolizing upon my entitlement as an historic rural practitioner, I used the occasion of our meeting today to project my casual thoughts. Remarkably I called upon my sense of hearing – one which I gleefully pronounced related to the ability to play the piano by ear – to compliment the country lawyer. As I told him, from the moment I first heard his voice I recognized what I decipher as the characteristic traits of a country lawyer, among them a softness of address combined with a buoyancy of theme and – if I may be forgiven to lapse into Emily Post’s Book of Etiquette – a calculable discretionary overtone commonly called respect for old age. Unsurprisingly the country lawyer maintained this obvious restraint when addressing a number of other matters, a focus which I found both chivalrous and invigorating.

The attraction to country lawyers is not limited to literary, audible or theatrical motives. I have often recalled the assurance of a former client who was part of a celebrated entrepreneurial family in the Village of Dunrobin, Ontario. She unhesitatingly avoided big city lawyers in preference for country lawyers. Granted she had grown up in a rural environment and then lived in an estate along the Ottawa River as did her immediate family and in-laws. But rural residency is not the sole force behind the country lawyer.  I quickly learned in my practice that many people had turned their heads to the farming scene in preference for the urban vernacular. Though I am quick to recall as well that when, as happened on more than one occasion, I was consulted about a matter clearly beyond my intelligence and capacity,  my client and I together attended upon a big city lawyer for enlightenment. The big city lawyer – to his credit – knew enough to complete the retainer without encouraging any shift of allegiance, a candid division of power which effectually maintained the community in the future.

Call it what you will, it may amount to no more than a distinction without a difference.  Remember the sobering adage, “The only thing worse than a lawyer at a party is two of them!”

Accordingly I bow.

The Country Lawyer

Today, at the height of my retirement and in as respectable a state as I can now manage, I presented myself to a country lawyer in our small town to swear an affidavit concerning a will I drafted more than a decade ago. It remains a small but enduring distinction to be a country lawyer—a title that, depending on who utters it and with what inflection, can serve equally as compliment, mockery, or affectionate tease. For my part, I embrace it without apology or false modesty.

I once heard a former Justice of our provincial court remark of a now-departed country lawyer, “He practised law with the contempt it deserves.” The line has circulated ever since, traded almost lovingly among lawyers themselves.

Historically, the country lawyer was more likely to have entered the profession by reading law than by attending a formal school, just as country doctors once learned their craft by apprenticing themselves to established physicians. Both callings, in their rural forms, grew up close to life as it was actually lived—illness, death, property, family, and dispute arriving not in abstractions but in flesh and acreage.

What refined the irony today was that the country lawyer I met is also, quite plainly, a city lawyer: a partner in a firm of many lawyers. Yet he was raised on a four-hundred-acre farm not far from the county town where he now lives, and that upbringing remains audible in him. There is, unmistakably, a country cadence—a softness of address, a buoyancy of tone, a respectful restraint that Emily Post herself might have recognized.

I told him as much, invoking my own musical vanity by explaining that I hear these things the way a pianist hears pitch. From the moment he spoke, I knew what he was. Not merely competent, but attentive. Not merely professional, but chivalrous in that quiet, rural way that never advertises itself.

My fondness for country lawyers is not merely sentimental. Years ago a client of mine from a celebrated entrepreneurial family in Dunrobin, Ontario, insisted on them almost to the point of doctrine. She and her kin lived along the Ottawa River on old estates, yet she had little patience for big-city counsel. Over time, I found she was not alone. Many clients, even those who had migrated to urban life, preferred the rural lawyer’s manner: steadier, less theatrical, less enamoured of his own cleverness.

That is not to say there is no place for the big-city lawyer. When a matter exceeded my own intelligence or experience—as it sometimes did—I would take the client myself to one. The best of them knew to take the retainer without poaching the relationship. That quiet division of labour preserved both dignity and community.

Call it what you like. Perhaps it is a distinction without a difference. Still, one should never forget the old truth: the only thing worse than a lawyer at a party is two of them.

Accordingly, I bow.

Abbreviation

Encapsulated in its most diverse definition the word abbreviation (whether elision, acronym, abridgement, pruning or telescoping) speaks to reduction. Not uncommonly this characterization flourishes upon approaching old age, a frequent example of which is downsizing. But old age – so I have unwittingly discovered – has further ground for cutback.  I speak of food.

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Looking upriver

Feeling very alone today. Not lonely, not forsaken, rather solitary. Perhaps because it’s a serene Sunday, a lightly snowing day, approaching mid-January after the social upheaval. The river is bland and empty. The fields are asleep beneath a duvet of white. The horizon disappears into the rim of misty trees. There is a pervasive quiet, a subdued atmosphere, predominantly white and grey with softened tinges of brindle.

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Country living

Drifting about the countryside this Saturday afternoon, with temperatures above freezing, the roads dry and shards of light blue in the white sky on the horizon, the car running to ideal standard, it was all I could do to sustain myself from unending proclamation of euphoria.  Granted a particle of this gleeful elation was my sudden release from the stomach aches I’ve endured for the past three days (perhaps those pink pills really work); but the winning effect of it all was a palliative beyond description.

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Winter Wilderness

As the clamour of Christmas finally subsides and we approach the middle of January, we mechanically enter the Winter Wilderness, that uninhabited wasteland of nothingness. The surreal nature of the void is for me compounded by the effects of over-the-counter cough syrup which I have no doubt contains enough “medicine” to seriously distort one’s mental equilibrium, contributing in no small part to midnight dreams of the most bizarre nature.

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Amusements

A law school crony (now Counsel to a prestigious law firm and a retired judge of the British Columbia Supreme Court) lately emailed me and asked, among other things, “what are you doing now?” My immediate reaction was to disguise the truth.  The truth is that I am not doing anything. Nothing of consequence, that is.

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Travel

It’s winter in Canada. The sidewalks are slippery; the roads are amuck with salt and slush; the temperatures are icy cold. Everywhere one goes, one hears account of travel, whether recent, pending, planned or debated. Considering the news from the United States of America that the dearth of Canadian snowbirds this year has caused a substantial economic impact, one wonders what the domestic narrative is. Reading random entries on Substack, there seems to be a persuasion that staying home is not entirely objectionable – neither politically nor culturally. Nonetheless there are unquestionably those hardened to removal from the Northern Hemisphere. Only a moment ago for example a friend wrote of his planned excursions.

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My little drive…

Being as I am, satisfied with inadequacy – or, shall I say less poignantly, satisfied with meagreness – the lapse today into seeming irregularities or patchiness was the repeated production of my ambling directions and purpose. While reading the Essays of Michel de Montaigne I struck upon one who, much to my complete surprise, was reportedly quoted by the Greek biographer and philosopher Plutarch (c.46 – c.120).

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Frittering away!

It is unfair to label today’s unadorned and unproductive indolence as wasteful. Wastefully extravagant, perhaps; but not spent unwisely. Nor do I consider the fleeting matters of mind and spirit trifling. Regularly now I am learning that having nothing in particular to do, being at unqualified ease to congregate upon a whim, to spend boundless hours in fitful discussion and hilarity, having no agenda to be heedful of – these are the pardonable affectations that now justifiably and properly absorb my attention. As a result I am equally unrepentant.  Indeed I am inclined to think that if one were not – for some reason that I cannot begin to imagine – disposed to adopt these characteristics for blush or colour, then surely there must be unfathomable difficulty at hand.

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